If you’ve ever tried to get me on Tuesday mornings, your email or voicemail is going to sit for awhile. Tuesday mornings is Dad time. Of course, evenings, weekends, mornings before work, and odd breaks during the day are all Dad time, too. It comes from working at home.
But Tuesday mornings are dedicated Dad time, when I take my boys out to breakfast and a park, or to the zoo, or some other adventure.
One thing that entrepreneurs often do badly is figure out how much money they really need. First there’s the squeak-by number which doesn’t include taxes, savings, or vacations. Then they get more realistic and include some of these other things, but it’s still hard to face up to how much you really need to be comfortable, especially if you’re still thinking in 1980 prices.
It’s similar with time. We rarely asses the true needs of our life. Usually we think:
- Work
- Family
- Sleep
Get a little more sophisticated and you might add in:
- Friends
- Health/exercise
If I’m going to be honest, though, there are even more categories I need to add to fully show up in this life:
- All of the above
- Financial life management, including bills
- Spiritual practice time
- Learning and education time
- Caring for the home, including gardening and home improvement projects
And then one last one:
- Civic involvement
I’ve managed, somehow, to have time at least semi-regularly for all of the above (woo-hoo, I recently received my Masters of Divinity!), except for that last one.
The trouble is that civic involvement directly affects the ecosystem of all of our other time. It determines whether our local government is responsive to our needs. Does the school system work well? Do our neighborhoods get the funding and support they deserve, or does the budget all go to downtown business interests?
You see, downtown business interests hire people to do the civic involvement because they know it’s worth it to them. It’s called “lobbying.”
However, when you and I do it, it’s called “democracy.”
At Heart of Business we strive for a sane work life, with plenty of time off. This is for health and sanity reasons, but also for political reasons. Taking a look at the nine categories time can be slotted up into (and no doubt you came up with another one or three), it means at least this:
We can’t afford, in fact never could afford, a workaholic culture. Although there is no such thing as “balance,” and our time commitments to different categories expand and contract depending on the season, we definitely cannot sustain, individually or as a culture, having our commitment to civic involvement edged out.
Civic involvement, like environmentalism, is ultimately about self-preservation. Both are about taking time to care for the ecosystem that we are dependent on in order to thrive. In years gone by I dedicated a lot of my time to activism. The last few years, not so much. This is something I want to see shift in significant ways over the next two to three years.
For me, and for all of us, this requires having businesses that operate at a sustainable level, not ones that take 50+ hours of our precious life each week. I like the 30 hours as full time work. Even better I like The 7 Day Weekend.
Imagine the world we’d create if we all had enough time for ourselves, our families and our communities, too.
I’m curious to hear how you allocate your time. What do you spend time with, and what categories would you like to give more time to?
With love and appreciation,
Mark
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Thank you Mark for this great article. I appreciate that you have a higher vision of life and that you are striving for living it.
Amen, brother! Thanks for writing this article, Mark. It speaks straight to my felt need for balancing and budgeting time in a truly sustainable and health-affirming way!
Kirstin- you are so welcome!
Hi Mark,
Thanks for writing such an excellent article. Taking care of ourselves by making time for the many important facets of our life, including civic engagement, is a necessity–not just a nicety–if we plan to sustain ourselves and our businesses over the long run. Workaholism leads to personal burnout and its hard to run a heart-centred, sustainable business if we’re running ourselves and our colleagues into the ground.
I’d also invite your readers to play with the idea that not all business organizations are narrowly focused on lobbying for initiatives that only suit or further business interests. Some of the community-based Business Improvement Associations in Vancouver are populated with a healthy proportion of socially responsible businesses who have taken the lead in greening their neighbourhoods, advocating for strengthening local economies and supporting local businesses, donating time or money to support projects like starting community gardens, partnering with social enterprises to create employment opportunities for individuals who experience significant barriers to employment, etc. It is possible to combine civic engagement and a passion for doing good in the world with and through business.
Susan- so true! Thank you for bringing to our attention that many businesses, especially small ones, are focused on doing what’s right.
Thanks to having a thriving online business, I am now living in Spain with my family of 4 for 6 months (we normally live in Melbourne, Australia). I organise my day so that I have breakfast with my young family, 3-4 hours of focused work in the morning, play time in the afternoon and evening (which includes ‘me’ time if my daughter can entertain herself). There’s another 2 hours after they go to bed for study or partner time. Saturdays and Sundays are strictly family time.
I am blessed to have such an existence! I have no idea how I got through 40, 50 and sometimes 60 hour weeks when I was working a full-time office job.
Brigit- that is awesome! I’m so happy for you and your family!
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